Intimacy & Desire Coaching — by Forbidden Wayz
It's something you build — on purpose, with the right words, at the pace that actually fits your life. I coach individuals and couples through the conversations, habits, and mindset shifts that turn "we should talk about this" into an actual sex life you're excited about.
That question is the whole first session. We don't need you to have the vocabulary yet — that's what coaching is for.
This is for you if
Coaching options
One-off clarity, a full reset, or ongoing support — matched to where you're starting from.
How it works
A short form and a discovery call so I understand where you're starting.
We name what you actually want — separate from what you think you should want.
Sessions build real scripts and habits, not just insight — insight alone doesn't change a Tuesday night.
We check what's sticking and adjust — so it holds after our work together ends.
Spark is the 1:1 coaching arm of Forbidden Wayz, home of The Velvet Hammer Podcast and the "Dom or Sub?" course — three years of talking about this, in public, so you don't have to figure it out alone.
About Vee
The podcast and the course cover the big ideas. Coaching is where we get specific — your relationship, your history, your actual next conversation.
My own experience spans both sides of the dynamic — dominant and submissive — across nearly every form this lifestyle takes, so the guidance comes from having lived it, not just studied it.
Based in Atlanta — sessions held virtually, wherever you are.
Send a note about what's going on and what you're hoping shifts. I'll follow up to get you on the calendar.